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Time. A concept.

Its 8:45am and i’m sitting at my desk in my little cubicle at work. I’m 20 years old just counting the months until I can legally get shit-faced at a public bar. As someone who suffers with anxiety my life revolves around the ticking hands on the clock ( I can’t live without my analog clock in the morning). I measure how long it will take me to do just about everything and I constantly think about what I like to call my “life timeline” or “growing up plan”.

I’m sure many of you have planned out your futures or at least thought about what age you should be “settled”. But what if time was irrelevant. What if time was just part of another tall tale created so we don’t completely lose our heads. like how your mom told you Santa was real to explain and justify the extreme gift giving during the holiday season.

Now I know I’m rambling and you probably already clicked off this page, but for the slight chance that you haven’t, I want to show you an excerpt of a book that changed my view of time in a completely different way.  If you are interested in this please take a look and leave a comment down below thank you.

THIS IS A VERY LONG EXCEPT.

Book: Morning star/ Chapter 1//Pages 21-25

“I believe that most people have in inaccurate perception of the passage of time,” he started off, keeping his eye on his best student. “People tend to think of it as a highway, the past disappearing quickly behind us with the future lying just ahead. We are like passengers in a car watching the landscape move past as we move down the road. If we wish, we could turn the vehicle around visiting our past, or speed up visiting our future. This is based on our human need to place a measuring stick on everything around us, and to explain concepts beyond our comprehension. Take for example the outdated need to explain life and death by creating an all-powerful God, who watches over us and rewards us with an afterlife. 22 The human animal, only a few steps out of the jungle, has already mastered the technology to travel in space, invented machines to do his labor and discovered many of the secrets of physics. Yet he prays to his creator like his ancient ancestors did and credits all of creation to an omnipotent being. He cites the first theory of thermodynamics which states “matter can not be created nor destroyed” to justify this belief. His yardstick firmly in place gives him the confidence to meet each new day without the anxiety or fear of death. Thanks to his creator he will have a seat waiting for him in heaven. Like many of his outdated ideas, his perception of the passage of time is skewed by rules of science written by men, who had limited knowledge of the discipline, and lived during the age of discovery. If it is possible to record actions then it must be possible to move through the story and travel to different chapters. If he only had the technology to travel through a magic door, which could propel him through time, he could land in his past or visit his future. Once again, I believe that most people have in inaccurate perception of the passage of time. Time is not a river. It does not flow, and you cannot travel to and from as you wish. The distant past is just as close to you as the recent past. Your future is just as close to you as the present. There are no destinations in time; there is just our human explanation of a concept, which we have no true idea of. We have to make sense of it in a way we can understand. How can we possibly understand the concept of infinity? Time has no beginning, nor end. Time is here and now, we are in it. The age of the dinosaurs is just as close as the age of man. The creation of the universe is just as close as the current day. 23 We try to visualize the many births of the universe, seeing mass explosions of matter creating the area we call space. We tend to think of it as something far and away. So far away it is beyond our comprehension. Time is not just a series of events caught on film to review with a beginning middle and end. It is here and now. It is a sliver of existence. If you could reach out of it you could touch the gas clouds that formed our galaxy as easily as touching the robes of Jesus. Infinity is an easy concept to understand if you release the outdated rules of science as man has envisioned it. As far as time is concerned, time is not infinite. There was no beginning and there will be no end. Man’s yardstick was a good tool to help explain this concept but it is now time to throw it away and rethink the laws of physics. People justify God by saying, “Something can’t come from nothing.” The answer is that there never was “Nothing”. Matter was not created; it has always been here. If you throw away the yardstick and stop thinking of time as a river it will start to make sense. You may ask then, how do we explain the aging process of the universe? Plants grow, changing shape and color showing a definite difference from month to month, and year to year. Animals grow old, reproducing in order to continue the line. If there is no such thing as time then why is there a physical change we can observe in the world around us. To answer the question you must realize that aging is the process by which matter and energy change physical from, at a consistent or inconsistent rate. This rate will be incorrectly assumed as the concept of time, because different objects do age at different rates according to the speed they are traveling in relation to each other. Moving objects age at a lesser rate than stationary objects. By this time you will think that I have 24 contradicted my first statement about the concept of time. I have not.” Dr Rhine said pointing his finger to the ceiling, not taking his eyes off his manuscript. “My argument is that objects do age, it is just that we humans do not comprehend aging and have created a theory about it called time, in order to explain it. With this new understanding, it is then possible to be able to move through the aging process. I will call the process time in order to make it more understandable. As I stated before, aging has different rates for different objects which makes it possible to be able to travel forward at a different pace. If you slow down and the world around you continues at your old rate, it would appear you were traveling forward. To those around you it would appear you have frozen in time. If you met up again at a later moment it would appear as though you traveled forwards in time. In fact all you have done is slow your aging process. The physical body one once occupied in 1956 no longer exists. The Earth at that point of aging is not stored somewhere to be retrieved at a later time. Once something has passed a certain point in the aging process it has ceased to exist. We can record light waves of the period on film and record sounds on tape; this is but a collection of images and not the object itself. The film itself will age and turn yellow and crack eventually returning to the elements which made it. It is now that we should rethink and reexamine how we perceive the theories of physics laid down centuries ago. At an earlier age, supernatural explanations were used along with scientific theories in order to understand the physical world around us. We no longer believe the world is flat and that the Earth is the center of the universe. Many of these outdated ideas were created at the same age as the discovery of gravity and electricity. At one point it was believed that man could not 25 fly, but we know this now to be untrue. Witches were created to explain death and disease, and black cats were considered evil. These concepts of magic are from the same time period as the people who first created many of the scientific theories we think of today as fact. The problem with this thinking is that black cats are not evil, and many of these facts are untrue. I can believe in the concept of time if it is used only as a measuring tool. A way of placing events into history in relation to other events. On paper we can establish a frame of reference using plotting points of years and months. This is still plagued with the problem that different objects do age at different rates, but since the rate is so minimal it can be overlooked for recording purposes. If we were interstellar travelers we would need one calendar for us, and one for all of the places around us. Since we travel little in comparison to each other, the aging difference is almost undetectable, maybe a few minutes over a lifetime.”

PACKING FOR COACHELLA

Okay so this is going to be the first year I go to Coachella and im bendy excited but I need to organize my life and make a good full list of things to pack. Thankfully we are not staying in a tent or in our car, which mean i can pack more 🙂

Sanitary:

  • Tooth Brush/Tooth Paste
  • Dry shampoo
  • Normal travel size shampoo & CONDITIONER. (The dry weather will mess with your hair)
  • Makeup Bag!! (bring setting spray)
  • Baby wipes/ Makeup Removing wipes
  • SUNSCREEN
  • Hand sanitizer
  • Advil
  • LIGHT Perfume/ Body Mist (you don’t want to stink in a mosh pit)
  • deodorant (non visible)
  • Self tanner for legs with SPF
  • Lip Balm with SPF
  • First aid Kit (mini portable one)

Clothes

  • SUNGLASSES
  • Hat
  • Scarf/Bandanna (dust storms are real)
  • 5 pairs of Underwear. (you never know)
  • Breathable bras
  • 4 pairs of socks
  • Sweatshirt (gets cooler at night)
  • Boots/ Sandals
  • 3 pairs of shorts
  • oversize T-shirt for sleeping
  • Kimono (for that cute outfit you have planned)
  • White breathable blouse
  • Accessories bag! (no outfit is complete without statement jewels)

Extra Stuff

  • Back Pack
  • Wallet & hotel key
  • mini makeup bag for on the go during the festival
  • Polaroid Camera and FILM
  • Tampons
  • WATER BOTTLE (Free refilling stations)
  • Portable charger
  • Mini phone Fan
  • Light Blanket/ tapestry (sitting on the grass)
  • Set List with time and stage.

Becoming Aware of Tech Evolution

Okay so this is a topic that not enough people are aware of.  Look around you, do you see that phone you’re holding? Or the laptop you’re typing on? Have you ever thought about how you would be reading this information if we were back 100 years? Didn’t think so.

But who would?! Why does it matter?! Why do I care about the past?

Well okay I’ll make it simple. If this was 1917 you would not be reading this poorly written blog on a touch screen device, you would be using a Vogue catalog! JK… The point is that you would have been reading it on paper. Whether it would be a magazine, flyer, newspaper or book; but are you? No, because we as humans have evolved so quickly in the past 100 years to the point where we have eliminated the NEED for paper.

We might still use paper because some people have just not caught up with the times, or… they like the feel of a paper book etc. But the truth is that we have lost the NEED for many things and converted it to tech that fits in our pockets or stored in “the cloud”.

It’s really amazing. We have taken Phones, Phone Books, Computers, GPS, Games, Clocks, and all other sorts of things and have compressed it down to a singular device that can be carried around in your purse. We even have entire busnisses online like Amazon. AND it can be used anywhere wirelessly and weighs less than a half a pound.

Did I just blow your mind?

I hope not! Because this is the reality we live in. If you haven’t noticed, we are living in the midst of the technological evolution and every month there is a new advancement in the capabilities that our devices can do!

Do you remember the Jetsons? Well back in the 60’s when the show first aired the ability to Facetime was seen as science fiction, they used a form of communicating live through monitors back and forth which in turn is what we do today using our phones and tablets.

Everything up to this point in time had been manually done with tools and resources. It’s amazing how far we have come.

Nothing is the same. 

In metropolitan cities around the world, we tend to have EVERYTHING instantly to the point where if someone wanted to live in their house forever and never come out, they pretty much could! We have integrated our lives with the technology around us to the point where I could instantly order anything with an app, pay for it, and have it delivered to my door within 2 hours. Amazon sells branded buttons that you can stick to the tissue box or pantry item of your choice and when you run out just press the button and you instantly buy it. 

The idea of total comfort and convenience has arrived to the real world and yet most of us take it for granted. WE ARE LIVING IN THE BEGINNING STAGES OF THIS SO CALLED FUTURE!

From my perspective, I believe most people don’t realize how far we have come as the human race with our technology and how if we utilize our resources correctly we could potentially save the planet we live on. This planet we call home. Earth.

Raising a Child Vs Dog: Tweets to note

Early this morning as I was scrolling through twitter I saw a chain of Tweets that caught my attention. It was an old high school peer of mine who just so happened to have a son recently.

Her chain explains the difference between raising a child in comparison to raising dogs as your children like so many people here in California do. 

As a dog owner myself and a mother of a two year old I did feel a bit embarrassed reading these tweets because I am guilty of calling my dog my “second daughter” when the reality is that raising them is a hell of a lot different.

These are the tweets and I couldn’t agree more!

  • You grow a child and share your body with them for 10 months, and then you push them out. (unlike dogs you can buy/adopt)
  • You teach a child to be independent. Teach them to live and think on their own because eventually they leave your home. 
  • You teach your child to  distinguish colors shapes sounds and feelings. Even how to read and write! this take A LOT of time and effort.
  • You have to cook multiple meals for your child unlike a dog who has  pre-baught and packaged food.
  • The Cost alone is much much greater than a dog.
  • You don’t have to teach your dog how to wipe, brush their teeth, bathe on their own, how to dress themselves, etc..
  • Your child is going to contribute to society. How you raise them has a huge impact.
  • You can’t just leave your child at home like a pet.

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You can comment below your opinions and feel free to add more to the list!

 

 

 

Trend Power Transfer

Kendall and Kylie Jenner: best known for being the younger half sisters of the Kardashian’s.

If you where living under a rock for the past 10 years you might not know who they are, but most of us know exactly who these two young women are and might unknowingly have been following the trends set by the Kardashian effect. A world-wide phenomenon that successfully pushes advertising and marketing to mas consumers in an indirect way.

Yet in the past few months I have noticed a shift in the trends, focusing more on the two sisters than on the Kardashian’s themselves.

More and more millennials are hopping on the Jenner express and have started to mimic every outfit, makeup look and lifestyle choice these two women make, but why?

Well, age matters. 20 something year old’s are in control now. In every industry we are seeing younger and younger professionals. This means younger people are getting more money which in turns makes them valuable consumers. Consumers that brands LOVE to target. And who set the trends? Icons.

The time for the millennial take over is here and it seems to me like we have appointed our new style icons. Joining the Jenner’s in the game of influence are the Hadid sisters ( model friends of Kendall and Kylie) This group women is dominating social media and have grown to be sole inspirations for retailers everywhere constantly trying to mimic their aesthetic or pay them to be walking advertisements.

The effect is now changed. The baton has been passed down. The Jenner’s are responsible for the trends we all love (or pretend to love) and no matter how hard you try to escape it. The fashion cycle has a place for everyone.

 

 

 

 

 

 

What is my Family Tree?

Unlike many of the people in the world I unfortunately never got to meet my grandparents on my mom’s side. And the Grandparents I do have, on my dad’s side are much to old to remember anything about their youth.

Now most of you probably know that I’m of Mexican decent, and I’m a first generation American. This is all find and dandy but there comes a point in time where sometimes I wonder “what events in history had to happen in order for me to be alive today”.

  • I wonder about their physical traits, if I look like them
  • I wonder about their education and how far they came in life.
  • I wonder about their accomplishments and if their talents were passed down to me.
  • I wonder about so many things yet I have not even a clue what my family tree even looks like!

The crazy thing is that I know for sure my race is a mixture of many different countries though I only ever identify as Mexican. Yet for some reason I have a feeling that I am so much more than that.

I know that in my own life and accomplishments I’v made something of myself but I still long for the unknown. I long for the comfort of knowing the struggles and sacrifices made that lead up to me.

I would use the Ancestry Tree helper but it’s too much money for information that I should already know. Also most of the records they have are from US-based census and hospitals. Nothing truly international or accurate.

For now I guess I’m left wondering. For now i’ll just stand still with this and see where my future offspring end up.

Best of luck to my daughter, and her children, and their children and so on. I’ll be sure to leave a good record for them to find someday.

 

Do any of you know your family tree? And if so how many generations back? anything interesting you know about your family past?

Feel free to comment!

Are you short tempered? Click here to find out.

Do you get angry many times in the day?  (more than once a day?)

You’ll forget halfway through an argument what you’re even arguing about, because you do it that often.

 But you’ll carry on anyway, just to prove a point.

11 things you'll only know if you're a short-tempered person

 

People closest to you know to steer clear of you at certain times of the day. Like when you’ve just woken up. And before you’ve had lunch. And when you’re travelling home from work. And when you get home, because you’re tired from a long day.

Being proved wrong makes your blood boil. Yet proving someone wrong boosts your ego.

BELIEVING YOU KNOW something for a fact even if it makes no difference in the situation and can’t be proven. (for example fighting about what someone specifically said or did in the past) *only works if the action was not caught on tape or written at the time. 

Bringing up an issue over and over again after others have started a different topic.

Thinking that EVERY little disagreement needs to be resolved.

Typos, mispronunciation, and misinformation can lead to you constantly correct people and ultimately  makes you look like a total dick all the time. IF YOU KNOW WHAT THEY MEANT TO SAY, LET IT GO! Your attempt at correcting and informing them to “make them not sound stupid” is going to piss anyone off, especially if its done multiple times in a conversation.

You are habitual to saying mean things when angry. Sign #7. You are habitual to saying mean things when angry. 

All short-tempered people love to extend a small situation into a big one and make it as dramatic as possible. They get a sense of power when they feel they have hurt or made their “enemies” feel stupid/ wrong.

Believing others are the cause of their anger and expecting others to apologize for their aggressive behavior.

Getting upset when people don’t do as you say. The main thing to remember is that you can always suggest things but do not take it personally if the other person doesn’t do it. Just because you believe your way is the “right way” doesn’t mean you have the right to get angry or upset with them for choosing their own way.

Lashing out when you feel ignored is probably one of the bigger causes of anger. People with anger issues are more likely to have a bigger ego and when they aren’t heard or listened to they feel personally offended.

Expecting others to apologize to you when you get irrationally angry. (ultimately your harsh reaction is worse than the original offence the person did)

Realizing you got angry over something small many times a week and not doing anything about it.

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Amazing Facts on How Far We Have Come

  1. We are currently living in the midst of what is known as the most peaceful era of human history. In the 1940s 300 of every 100,000 people died as a result of war. Now its less than 1.
  2. World illiteracy has more than halved between 1970 and today.
  3. The global child mortality rates have declined by 53% from 1990
  4. The number of people who have access to safe drinking water is going down by one every second of every day.
  5. The number of under nourished/ Under fed people in the world is also declining at a speedy rate.
  6. Since the 20th century the amount of hours the average person works has halved despite wages and productivity increasing.
  7. Human life expectancy has increased more in the last 50 years than it did in the previous 200,000 years of human existence. In 1950 life expectancy was 47 years. in 2017 its over 80 years.
  8. Everything from a basic note pad to a complete mobile office has been compressed into a single cell phone.
  9. If we printed out all the information Wikipedia has (without images)  it would consist of more than 2437 volumes.
  10. Between 1990 and 2013 maternal mortality worldwide has dropped by almost 50%
  11. Vaccines have eliminated Smallpox, and we are getting closer to eradicating other diseases like Diphtheria, Whooping cough, Measles and Polio.
  12. We will create more information in the form of data in a single day than was ever created in all of history up until 2003.
  13. There is more computing power in a TI-83 calculator than in the computer that landed Apollo 11 on the moon.
  14. Gay marriage is now legal for 60% of Americans.
  15. Between 1991 and 2010 the mortality rate for cancer fell by 20%.
  16. Women can now vote, work, support a family, run for office, go to the moon. Women now have rights and opportunities that no other women in history had before the 1920s
  17. “race mixing” is now the norm. (interracial couples)
  18. America elects a black president.
  19. Women of color dominate the Olympics
  20. In a span of 66 years we went from first flight to moon landing
  21. Reusable energy such as solar, water, and wind have increased dramatically.